Dear Lulu: I met a guy through a friend recently, and he ended up asking me out. We hung out a few times, although he didn’t ever try to make a move physically. After three well-planned, great dates, I never heard from him again. I feel really confused and bummed, because I thought we had a great time together. Should I text him to say hi? — Ghosted And Hurt
Dear G&H: unfortunately ghosting seems to be a standard in the millennial dating scene these days. You probably won’t like what you’re about to hear: but the only thing you can do here is to move on.
Realistically, you went on three dates together and neither of you truly owe each other anything. Yes, you may feel like he wasted your time. But that’s about it.
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